
Is this one worth fighting? I need some input from an impartial observer who doesn’t react emotionally to being challenged by a four year old four (or forty) times a day.
Last week I bought a Disney Princess wet wipe container for our bathroom with the special lid that pops up and allows one wipe at a time to be removed that, in theory, eliminates the need for all the wet wipes to dry out each time a person under 28 opens the container and leaves it open.
Fortunately, Eliza (one of the worst offenders of the dry wipes problem) loves my taste in wet wipe containers and is enthralled by the little flip top.
Unfortunately, Eliza decided that the container would make a perfect treasure box for herself. “It doesn’t even smell like wet wipes inside!” she announced after she emptied it of wipes and loaded it with "treasures."
Fortunately, I know by now that wet wipes can be rehydrated after they are left out of their container.
Unfortunately, I have to assume the role of detective just to find the MIA wet wipes that are suffering from what’s becoming quite the drought. At first Eliza merely deposited the wipes near the scene of the crime, on the bathroom counter. Since the initial scolding that ensued, she’s been known to leave them on her bedroom floor, and once she even disposed of the evidence in the trash can. Which, unfortunately, requires sanitization as well as hydration.
It's not news to me that Eliza is a hoarder. A while back I made a batch of homemade pretzels that I left to cool while Mark and I were watching a movie. (The girls had eaten theirs earlier.) Eliza, who had already been tucked into bed, snuck out and collected most of the pretzels (in a towel I save for mopping the floor) and hid them under her pillow. It was only by accident that I discovered them, when I came in to see why she was still awake, and found her arched unnaturally (and unrepentantly) over her pillow.
It's not news to me that Eliza is a hoarder. A while back I made a batch of homemade pretzels that I left to cool while Mark and I were watching a movie. (The girls had eaten theirs earlier.) Eliza, who had already been tucked into bed, snuck out and collected most of the pretzels (in a towel I save for mopping the floor) and hid them under her pillow. It was only by accident that I discovered them, when I came in to see why she was still awake, and found her arched unnaturally (and unrepentantly) over her pillow.
Is it worth the fight to reclaim the Princess box for its rightful duty, and out of the principle of “Mom's The Boss”? Or should I suck it up and fork out another $2.50 to replace the Princess box with a thoroughly unexciting non-princessy-or-other-kid-icon wet wipe box? Now that I know better, I’d pay an extra buck for a blank container.
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Oh, I relate way too much to this! Sarah and I have had many power struggles, often over the lamest things. I usually have to call in Andrew to help me let go of the situation. But I have to show that I have the power, right?
I'd say it's probably worth it to just get a new plain box. You know Eliza will never be able to resist anything with princesses on it, no matter how many times she's been told no.
Something I struggle with as well do fight til the bitter end or let it go and be seen as the weaker link?? For this I would have to vote with make her earn a dollar and buy her own princess box. Even though it will cost u some too she will think that u won got your box back and she can earn her own princess box. I like to make my kids work for things or at least make them think they are buying it.
I would totally buy another container. One covered in ucky 'boy' stuff - or just plain. Or you could go with her to get a special one just for her. I do think it's important that you talk to her first - explain it. "It seems to me you need a special place to put your things. What say we got get one, and give that one back to me?" Or whatever you decide. (You can even make one! Cover a shoebox with glitter or something.)
I like to save my battles for stuff that's REALLY important. You know, like not wearing my shoes. ;o)
I'm just impressed it appears your other 2 aren't upset that Eliza gets to commandere the wipe bucket...my kids are all about the FAIR-ness. Owen needs a run down of everything Eden got to do/eat when he gets home from school just to be sure he didn't miss anything! and the pretzel theiving? TOO much. Your kids make the best stories!
I vote you let Eliza earn the money to either buy your treasure box or her own new one :-) I can't believe how old our kids keep getting. How does that happen?
Condivido pienamente il suo punto di vista. Credo che sia una buona idea. Sono d'accordo con te.
Assolutamente d'accordo con lei. Penso che questo sia una buona idea. Pienamente d'accordo con lei.
Good reminder that power struggles aren't limited to my corner of the world! Scout did the same thing with the Winnie the Pooh wipes container that I bought. (As if the other 12 containers she has hidden under her bed aren't enough to stash her stuff.)
Well, first of all, you could tell her she can only have as many pretzels as can fit in a wipe container. Then take that container and bury it in the sandbox, and in the meantime, buy 3 princess containers and fill them with homemade wet wipes, make another batch of pretzels and homemade goodies, plan and calculate your sister's entire food storage needs, then blog about it. Then you are the ultimate mom! Everybody wins! (I say make her save up and buy a wipe container at the store)
I love your updated pics: flowers, veggies and wild "treaty" celebrations! Good luck with the wipes . . . and the payment schedule!
I thought I would be mean by saying I'd make her earn the wipe box but it appears others agree with me. I'll have to work harder at being mean. Good luck with the hoarding. I have a couple of pack rats but no hoarder, unless you count me and food.
HA ha, Becca! Who gets homemade pretzels as a snack?! Liza's got the good life. I have the same urges for midnight snacks too. You could always try Lightning McQueen wipes. Those would probably stay safely in the bathroom.
All I have to say is I cannot stop laughing--especially about the towel choice that Eliza used when gathering her contraband. Never a dull moment at the Williams'
p.s. I'd go with the target brand wipes--then Liza won't have a box to get jealous over.
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